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Books, PD products, science, fashion, and glam talk. From Bollywood
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to Hollywood, it's Meet and Greet with Dr. Afshan Hashmi,
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right here on K4HD Radio and Talk4TV. And here's your host,
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international speaker, educator, award-winning entrepreneur, and best-selling author, Dr.
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Afshan Hashmi.
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Hello everyone, this is your loving host and best-selling author,
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radio and TV personality, Dr. Afshan Hashmi, live from her
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studio in Rockville, Maryland. And today, folks, you know, I'm
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going to give tribute to a very dear friend of
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mine who was of my age, you know, and she
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was after her 10th class, she came to Aligarh Muslim
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University and And at that point, we had pre-university levels
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and pre-medical level. And she was, you know, a very
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good friend of mine. And she was all through Mandvi
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and Bharat Dwaj. If you are listening, you know, I
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love you a lot. You know, I have to connect
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with you. And Mandvi and Sophia were best of friends.
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And then, you know, in the hostel, my another friend came,
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Saeeda Arjumad Bano, who is also my cousin, you know.
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And she also became very friendly with Sophia. And Sophia
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was very good looking. And one fine day last week,
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you know, on Tuesday, I found out that, you know,
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Sophia is.
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No more alive. And I said, oh, no. And, you know,
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I was like in frozen state.
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I have so many deaths in the family, including my
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let me drink some water.
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There were so many deaths in the family, you know, and.
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Due to illegal espionage and illegal droning, you know, and
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I don't know what happened to Sophia. One of my
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very close friends told me that she was suffering behind
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the scene with cancer.
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I don't know if that is true or not.
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And once, you know, I visited India and I went
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to buy my shoes, you know, and there I from back,
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someone came and kissed me.
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And that was Sophia Mumtaz.
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And I was very surprised because it was a very,
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very hot day. afternoon you know and we were I
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was strolling you know I just had gone you know
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I wanted to buy a high heel like sneakers in
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India you know those were very good and I had
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seen that and at that point I didn't have money
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so next day I went to buy the sneakers and
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here comes Sophia with her there was a very young
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boy standing next to her And she said that this
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is my son.
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And he was a very handsome boy.
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You know, I don't know what his name is because
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we never connected. You know, after that, I didn't know
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that Sophia is here in Lupin, you know, and she
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is local. Maybe she also did not know that I
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that I was the she was local and one of
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my friend. told me you know that she visited this
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place and she wanted to meet people so she went
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in Aligarh Alumni Association Washington DC's picnic but I was
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not there Mustafa was not there so you know I
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missed the chance of meeting Sophia. So now, folks, I
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will go on a break and will be back soon.
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So, Dr.
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Sophia Mumtaz, this is Sophia. She still looks so cute,
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you know. The aging hasn't been done on her. She
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was a very, very sweet person. Very intelligent, very sweet person.
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And a way fresh out of, from New Delhi, you know.
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And my father was the head of biochemistry, you know.
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So when she came in biochemistry, her mother visited us.
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I did not see her father. Her mother visited us,
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you know, and she was also very good looking woman.
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So this is Sophia. And Sophia was very outgoing person.
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she and Mandvi you know would sit on a bike
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you know and roam about and one of my second
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cousin was in love with the Sophia you know and
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so and they and Sophia were so much close together
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that everyone thought that Sophia will get married to my
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second cousin. But Sophia, I don't know what happened between
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them that my dad's second cousin was dating Sophia's first
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cousin also in Aligarh. And I don't know what happened
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between that. And she also did not get married to him.
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And this my second cousin, you know, he married a
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girl from Delhi, you know. And she, even if she
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hears about Sophia or.
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Anything, she gets panic attacks, you know. So I don't
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know why.
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And my second cousin was a Bonvita who is good,
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you know, and very, very modern, you know. And they
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used to come every time, you know, in that if
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you go and see Aligarh Muslim University, you know, there
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you will see that there is a.
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Ambassador cars you know used to park there in the
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parking thing it's called Barsati you know or covered thing
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you know and they would stand and talk there for
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hours you know and all kind of activities they would
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do there you know so this is the kind of
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progressive thing you know and yes I am very open
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about it I used to meet Uwais my father knew
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about it so I was not afraid you know that
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I am meeting him. So, and Sophia and Mandvi and
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everyone knew about him. And they were so surprised. Sophia
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asked me there that what happened? I said, just leave
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it three days before wedding. He just left me. So,
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Uwais knew Sophia, Mandvi, Arjumand. And they're all my friends,
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Romana and everyone. Romana was in medical college and he
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met all my friends, you know, and and see what
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happened that three days before wedding, you know, unfortunate incident happened.
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Someone put his name. His passport was taken away and
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he wanted some money. But my father got very angry
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and he said, no, no money to you. Because because
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what if my brother said, what if after two years
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you say that you want this much money?
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He was not able to express himself.
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That what happened, you know, and I am so grateful
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to President Trump that he found out that that confusion
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in my mind that why he left. I was so confused,
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you know, and I used to talk to my husband, Mustafa,
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that I have to find it out.
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And Mustafa doesn't used to say anything.
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He was just quiet, you know, on that because I
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said I will only marry Mustafa, you know, only if,
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you know, he asked me anything before wedding and Sophia
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and all. And, you know, when the wedding was announced,
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you know, they all were shocked that what happened there,
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you know. So sometimes, you know, it is just destiny
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or whatever I can say. And Uwais didn't want me
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to be a widow and see I am sitting here
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as a widow. So now let's read about the background
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of Sophia. Dr. Sophia Mumtaz, President, Legal and Compliance, Canada,
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AMZ and NIA Business.
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Dr.
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Sophia joined Lupin 20 years ago and today manages Lupin's
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legal and compliance functions globally and oversees business in Canada,
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Japan and Australia. Prior to joining Lupin, she worked at
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Ranbexi and was an assistant professor at the University of Delhi.
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She is a board member of past chair of CII
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US India Business Forum. She has a doctorate degree in
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biochemistry from the University of Delhi and manages degree from
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the Indian School of Business Hyderabad. So I didn't know
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that she did MBA, but she was registered under Dr. Bachawat,
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you know, and she was also registered under my father,
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you know. So I don't know why Aligarh Muslim University
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part is cut. What is the theory there? Most of
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her friends are from Aligarh Muslim University. Lubna was also
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one of her friends from Delhi and she was also
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very popular among boys, you know.
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And Lugna used to.
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Wear trinkets, you know, and we all were friends, you know,
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there was no bad blood between us, you know, and
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I really miss Sophia. May Allah and Rasool Allah and
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his besties give her highest place in Jannat. Ameen.
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And yes, I have roots in Saudi Arabia and this
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is what it is.
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My father is a personal friend of Prophet Muhammad. Peace
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be upon him. My younger brother is Qutub. Both are
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in heaven by Dr. Afshan Hashmi. So I have taken
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fatwa on this, you know. and like the religious Islamic
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word on this, you know, from a registered person who
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knew my father, who knew my family, and I have
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taken fatwa. And if you want to go and see
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that fatwa, it is on my website, www.afshanhasmi.com. And also, folks,
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now let me do, since it is a tribute, let
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me do for the peace of the soul, you know,
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And what I am told that when someone reads the
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Holy Quran or a book and they say that go
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to them, angels take it, you know, to that person,
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you know, and to that person's father first. And then
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they ask, you know, that whether we should give it
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to your daughter and all.
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So in our religion, paternity is very important.
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So they take it to the father and then the